Thursday, March 28, 2013

Easter baskets

 
I'm linking up with Sarah today to talk about Easter Baskets!  While, I'm usually a planner, I am a little behind this year.
 
Typically, for Easter baskets, I do:
1 $15-$20 toy
Some books or educational stuff
Craft projects
a little candy
fun cheap crap (target $1 bin stuff as filler)
 
Since I don't have it totally together yet, I'll show you what I have so far. 
 
Mia:
 
Mia has wanted a Sofia 1st doll for months!
 
I found these in the $1 bin at Target!  Educational and cheap...Score!
 
She loves making stuff so I thought a spring necklace would be fun.

Target $1 bin crap...but she loves stickers and tattoos so win win

She also loves rainbows and jewelry.

Of course, she'll have a chocolate bunny...

and how cute are these bunny lip lollipops?

Next up...My Paxman:

We usually go to Navy Football Games with our friends so when I saw this, I knew he would love it.  He loves airplanes!

I'm not sure how this one flies, but it got good reviews on amazon so we'll see...

Pax also loves baseball and elmo so I thought he would like this. 

So far, this is all I have found for his basket.  I also plan to include matchbox cars, lollipops, and a craft project.

What do you put in your kid's baskets?

Book Review: The Fault in Our Stars


Amazon's Description reads:
Despite the tumor-shrinking medical miracle that has bought her a few years, Hazel has never been anything but terminal, her final chapter inscribed upon diagnosis. But when a gorgeous plot twist named Augustus Waters suddenly appears at Cancer Kid Support Group, Hazel’s story is about to be completely rewritten.

Insightful, bold, irreverent, and raw, The Fault in Our Stars is award-winning-author John Green’s most ambitious and heartbreaking work yet, brilliantly exploring the funny, thrilling, and tragic business of being alive and in love.

This book is so incredibly sweet, but so sad.  I cried...a lot...ugly cries.  Warning... Don't read this book at work (during lunch) or anywhere in public. You will cry. 

Their love story was truly heartwarming.  As a reader, you wanted so much for things to work out...for a cure to be found or for a miracle.  The main characters were both very likeable.  I also liked how you could see from the parent's perspective also...how losing a child can effect them as well.  Though Van Houten was so rude...you could tell that losing his daughter has deeply impacted his life.  He was unable to finish her story or live his life without drinking to get through the day. 

 I can relate to how Hazel felt as an only child...knowing that if/when she passed away, her parents would be left alone.  I have often felt that as an only child (though not nearly to the extent Hazel did as I am not sick).  I'm sure other children have felt the same way.

The thing I liked most about this book, other than the sweet love story, was that Hazel's mom was using her grief and her story to help others.  I love that she was going back to school to be a social worker.  I love that Hazel supported and loved that as well.  I love when people take something negative in their lives and use it to help and inspire others. 

So...on to the Book Club Questions:

+ Do you see Hazel as a likeable narrator?  How about a realistic one?
Yes, I see her as both likeable and realistic. 
+ Why did Green choose to add Peter Van Houten and the trip to Amsterdam to the story?  How did that affect or change the book?
For me, it gave me another perspective--a parent's perspective and shows how they suffer when their child has a life threatening illness.  It shows how their lives can change in an instant.
+ Was the book too sad or tragic for you or did it somehow leave you feeling uplifted?  How?
It was sad...but it was realistic. I felt that the way Hazel's parents handled her illness was somewhat uplifting in that they were trying to help others. 
+ There are some graphic scenes including Gus peeing his own bed and vomitting all over himself.  Why do you think Green chose to add these.  Are they appropriate?
I think he wanted to make this story real.  These are real side effects and wanted to show that there is so much more to having Cancer than people realize.  While you may not want to read about them, they happen and I think he wanted to show that.
+  What makes Gus and Hazel's love story unique?  Do you see them as real characters- why or why not?
I could see them as real characters.  While I cannot really relate to them, I think they shared similar character traits, which brought them together.  Their love story was also unique in that they could relate to one anothers situation and understand it in a way that others could not.
+ Would you suggest this book to someone who has cancer or is close to someone with cancer?  Why or why not?
No.  While I believe it paints a realistic image of someone in the final stages of cancer, I would not want someone I care about (who is also suffering from the disease) to read about the suffering and pain that goes along with it. 
+ The book is classified as "young adult" fiction.  Do you think this is an accurate genre for the book, or do you consider it too deep for that age group?  On the back cover of the book it says that Green writes "for youth rather than to them".  What do you think that means?
I believe "young adult" fiction is the right genre for the book.  I think when Green says he writes for them rather than to them, he means he is trying to make the book relatable.  It isn't all candy and lollypops.  Life as a teen can be hard and he wants to point that out.  Issac's love story is a perfect example.
+ What did you think of the end of the book?  Did it give you enough closure?
While I'd love to know how long Hazel lived, I think we can all assume what happened eventually.  I was ok with the ending. 
+ What did you think of Green's description of Hazel's grieving process immediately following Gus' death? 
Her Eulogy to him (8 days prior) made me cry.  It was so heartfelt.  Her pain was real...and raw. 
 What touched you the most about those scenes?
I think just reading about her desperation to find out what he wrote for her...to have something tangible to hold on to. 
+  What is the significance of the title of the novel?
Sometimes in life...the stars just don't align for a lifetime together.  While their love was real....there was a fault in their stars that only provided them with a short time together.






Wednesday, March 27, 2013

CaraBox: Karen



I participated in my first Cara Box exchange this month and it was awesome!  I got paired with two wonderful ladies, Karla and Kara
I received my CaraBox from Karla last night and I was so excited.  Ignore the bad pictures from my iphone as I was opening it on the way to a playdate :).


Karla knew I had just moved so many of the items were for my kitchen.  This towel perfectly matches my aqua and yellow color scheme!  I love it and it's already hanging on my stove!

This was the inside of the box.  I spoted the chocolate immediately!

This adorable chalkboard label said "Keep Calm, It's full".  LOVE IT!  I'm going to keep it on my desk at work.

I also got lipstick and nail polish!  The nailpolish is such a great shade of red.  So bright and happy.  I also can't wait to try my new "kiss me coral" lip stick!  Looks perfect for spring!

Next up...kitchen supplies.  She knew my favorite color was yellow and I definitely LOVE ice cream!  I also love the cute pig timer...adorable, right?

Karla's note was super sweet and I'm so lucky to have met her! 






March for Babies--add your baby's name to my shirt!

This is our 5th year participating in the March of Dimes, March for Babies.  We walk every year in memory of our son, Parker and in honor of our other children, Mia and Paxton.  This year, we want to raise even more money and honor even more children!!  We want to walk for your kids as well!  For a donation (any size), I will add your child's (grandchild, neighbor, friend, niece, nephew, cousin, etc) to my shirt and walk in their memory or in their honor.  To donate, visit my page at www.marchforbabies.org/nahas.  To have your child's name added, please email me at kfinck4@gmail.com
Thank you!


Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Trendy Tots - hair accessories


I was going to show off their Easter outfits this week, but decided to wait until next week so I can hopefully snap some cute pictures.  This week, I decided to talk about hair/hair accessories. 

Mia LOVES her bows and headbands...though recently, she has opted for pig tails or braids.  Here are a few of her favorite "trendy" hair accessories:




Paxton likes the messy bed head look or a faux hawk look.  Basically, he likes to look tough :)



What are your kids favorite hair accessories or looks?


Monday, March 25, 2013

Weekend Events


We spent the majority of this weekend, sick.  I had the flu...topped with a sinus infection/ear infection.  Mia had a broncial infection, and Paxton is on steriods for his congestion. 



I hope you are all feeling well!  I will definitely be getting my flu shot next year! 

Thursday, March 21, 2013

Night Terrors

I've wrote before about how my 4 year old suffers from night terrors.  I wanted to just post again in case anyone has any suggestions on how to help.  This was my Tuesday night:

8pm bedtime.  Mia fell to sleep immediately (she had had a fever all week)
9:44pm, she woke up screaming.  We consoled her.  About an hour later, she fell back into a restless sleep.
12 something pm-- up again, screaming for milk.  Up for about 45 minutes
1:14am, up again...crying...

You get the picture...this continued all night.  It was horrible.  Her eyes were open, but she was asleep.  She was answering up, but incoherent.  Her answers often made no sense. 
She ended up waking her brother up.  Everyone was crying. It was a mess.  This happens about 1x a month (maybe less).  Has anyone else experienced this?  Do you have any suggestions?

Desperate for sleep and help for my baby,

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Wednesday Wish List




My birthday is coming up next month so I thought I'd help my husband out a little (should he decide to check my blog out before then) and create a little "wish list".  So...here it goes:



Floor Mirror/Jewelry Armiore
I want an mirror/jewelry armoire

Pinned Image

I got this stuff in my birchbox and I love it! 

World Gym Women's Burnout Tee

A Gym Membership...I need it for sure!

thesouthernbelleboutique.net

I love this monogram doormat

Cute!

Love this wreath

Vintage Tea Cups

A set of vintage tea cups

How to frame a bathroom mirror tutorial.

For our bathroom mirrors to be framed

and..is it wrong for me to ask for a new front load washer and dryer, and new kitchen appliances?  I was so spoiled at our old house. 





Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Trendy Tots Spring Favorites



This week...since Spring is supposedly right around the corner, I wanted to show you some of my spring favorites...past and present. 

It is no secret...I love a little boy in a bow tie.  This is Paxton on his first Easter, 2011.

We went with seersucker last year...another favorite.  you can't tell but he's wearing a bow tie again. 

This was Mia in 2010..wearing a teal and white tunic from Gap and some white jeans. 

Mia, Easter 2010...in a dress from Gymboree. 

Some of my current spring favorites are
For Mia:
and
From Janie and Jack
Sea Plane Pique Polo ShirtPlaid Patchwork ShortSea Plane Laceless Sneaker
For my airplane obsessed little man...  I love this outfit from Gymboree

What are your spring favorites?